Weeellll I was bullied in like year 3... Tho that really wasn't bullying just the boys and their constant stupidity
Kids always try to cope with the challenges of their own unique realities... let him flounder around in his own way, he will alienate himself eventually, and you will not have to lift a finger. He's either desperate to make friends, or oblivious to his own shortcomings... either way, he will dig his own grave, so let him do it on his own. :S
Ugh this girl kept following me and my friends around like ages ago, she lied and she STOLE all of my smiggle rubbers (really cool rubbers :3) and she like stole all my friends, then for year 6 I got stuck with her again. None of my friends liked her and she like kept making so that she got to sit next to them and I couldn't. At that time I was in a 3 group so if we went in partners she kept bugging me to be her partner, one day I asked to be my partner (my other friends went together) and she was like hold on a minute. She goes and asks someone else so I ask someone else. The person she asked had a partner so she came back up to me and was like lets go, I just said you left so I got a new partner. She cracked it at me, we are doing different subjects now so hopefully I will never be with her again :3
I have somewhat of an evil / funny story to tell everyone. In around grade 8 I had a lot of trouble with this one person who liked my best friend and would hang around with us at lunch. He was somewhat weird and I was a little jealous of him hanging out with a best friend I've known since I was really young. He would steal attention away from me when I tried to talk and all around annoyed the shit out of me. He really pissed me off one day and i literally kicked him into a locker, this breaking his nose and giving him quite a few scars. I got suspended for 2 days in school. i was scared to go home that day because of my parents, when I got home everyone congratulated me on what I did. This story isn't promoting violence in these types of situations but I'd say defend yourself in any situation you feel threatened. I am now friends with this guy and have been for a while, we kind of just met one day, appologized and worked things out. It is weird how things turn out sometimes. But always know it is better to do something about built up fear or anger than to bottle it up.
I'm a little late to this conversation, sea has the right idea family is paramount in dealing with bullies. For me it was different a broken home my brothers and sisters moved out. I was picked on when I was in grade school but, by the end of high school I was the bully of the bullies, Sometimes it's best to leave your feelings at home when that is going on. Their goal is intimidation by using your feelings against you. There is always more then one way to win a battle. Some victories will come In time, usually twenty years from now, they will usually hang themselves. To be angry is easy to be angry at the right person, at the right time, in the right place, and for the right reasons is very hard. The biggest thing to me was to always be who I wanted to be, watch out for those who could not defend themselves against such actions, and to to keep my honor intact at all times. Keep your wits about you and they will fade away. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
:3 My brother was bullied, he went to a bully group about it, got kicked out because he was a bully. God I love my brother.