Bullied or bully?

Discussion in 'Off-topic' started by Sophiiiiiiier, Oct 10, 2013.

  1. Sophiiiiiiier

    Sophiiiiiiier Active Member VIP

    Have you guys ever been bullied or have been the bully? Quite recently I've been picked on for no certain reason. I'd have to say, if you treat someone like crap, you're pathetic and I hate you.
     
  2. thodazarexrt

    thodazarexrt Member

    I agree totally and I have been bullied a lot growing up, I pulled through and told someone about it getting more information than I would of ever though possible. Thinks like this have always gone on around my family/friends.
     
  3. StephenP67

    StephenP67 Well-Known Member VIP

    Yeah bullying sucks. You shouldn't have to put up with that sort of crap just going about your business.
     
  4. oiShocKWavesv

    oiShocKWavesv Well-Known Member VIP

    People tried to bully me when I was around year 7 (being the new kid from out of town) but it turns out I made friends with the "popular" kids quite easily. When a bully came up to me and started to pick on me (in hindsight, this isn't the best thing to do) I used to just square up to them and say "hit me again, I dare you". I was a very silly child. But it worked for me, no more bullies.
     
  5. QuietSea

    QuietSea Well-Known Member VIP

    Screw those oppressive, self centered ass holes that think they're better than you. To be honest though, you should probably talk to your family or someone you can relate to in real life and not to a minecraft community.
     
    Last edited: Oct 11, 2013
  6. sioutdoors

    sioutdoors Well-Known Member VIP Creative Architect

    beat him at his own game but be smarter about it
     
  7. Abdullahj

    Abdullahj Active Member

    I did beat him, but I certainly was not smart about it. Quick tip: Never resort to physical violence unless absolutely necessary. You WILL get in trouble.
     
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  8. treyman77

    treyman77 Active Member

    Yeah, bullying is stupid. I was usually the smart person in school so I was aimed at a lot. It got difficult to deal with all the teasing and destruction to my property. It finally ended when I created this elaborate prank which ended up with me and like 30 seniors pelting the loser with water balloons outside my neighbor hood. :)
     
  9. trukklob

    trukklob Active Member Creative Architect

    (Quietsea is correct, you should probably look for guidance from home... but just in case you wanted a second opinion, here you go! :D )

    ~Stand up to your aggressors, even at risk of punishment from the school authorities. If the school punishes you for protecting yourself, find a new school, as the authority at that point has failed to protect your rights.

    NORTH TEXAS (CBSDFW.COM) – A lot of schools spend countless hours trying to stop bullying. But some question if they are sending the right message.
    It started as a simple look at bullying. University of Texas at Arlington criminologist Seokjin Jeong analyzed data collected from 7,000 students from all 50 states.
    He thought the results would be predictable and would show that anti-bullying programs curb bullying. Instead — he found the opposite.
    Jeong said it was, “A very disappointing and a very surprising thing. Our anti-bullying programs, either intervention or prevention does not work.”
    The study concluded that students at schools with anti-bullying programs might actually be more likely to become a victim of bullying. It also found that students at schools with no bullying programs were less likely to become victims.
    The results were stunning for Jeong. “Usually people expect an anti-bullying program to have some impact — some positive impact.”
    The student videos used in many campaigns show examples of bullying and how to intervene. But Jeong says they may actually teach students different bullying techniques — and even educate about new ways to bully through social media and texting
    Jeong said students with ill intentions “…are able to learn, there are new techniques [and gain] new skills.” He says students might see examples in videos and then want to try it.
    According to Jeong, some programs even teach students how to bully without leaving evidence behind. “This study raises an alarm,” he said. “There is a possibility of negative impact from anti-bullying programs.”
    Jeong and others like him believe that until the message delivered by anti-bullying programs improves — some programs may be doing more harm than good.
     
  10. SkittlesQueen

    SkittlesQueen Active Member VIP

    From what everyone has said,quietsea is right,but so is everyone else to a certain point, now when I started at my new highschool,there was this kid who had a birthmark on his face,he got called all sorts of names n he'd just laugh it off but then got in trouble cuzz he took out the angryness that gets to u after being bullied out on teachers,I tried standing up for him but he'd just get pissy at me so I stopped helping him and he also moved after 9th grade to his dads,so then I became the target and I stood up to the same kid that picked on that other kid so lesson Learned,stand up for yaself even if your scared what might happen after standing up to that bully

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  11. Navarog

    Navarog Well-Known Member

    I'm as much of an asshole to dumbasses Irl as I am here. Aaand I'm so stuck-up that everyone seems like a dumbass. I don't make fun of people because of physical features or for not knowing things, but willful ignorance pisses me off.

    I've never been bullied in my life. Not that I know of, anyway. Most people around my age and younger suck ass at insults and can't touch meee.
     
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  12. trukklob

    trukklob Active Member Creative Architect

    nava's example: get dem brainzz, beat dem bullies with yo fists o' knowledge!
     
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  13. thodazarexrt

    thodazarexrt Member

    I love this idea :).
     
  14. Navarog

    Navarog Well-Known Member

    I am honestly amazed that I am not living out my high-school days shoved in a locker. ._. I'm skinny and white and a dick to everyone. But hey. even bullies need someone to help them with their homework.
     
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  15. PieSquared761

    PieSquared761 Well-Known Member VIP

    Ignore it, they'll go away. They get their jollies from your reaction. You could also be super nice to everyone and if someone bullies you, others will defend you.
     
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  16. Magetime

    Magetime Active Member VIP

    Go up to them and say 1v1 me bro, that shouldn't work
     
  17. CanOpenerTrooper

    CanOpenerTrooper Well-Known Member VIP

    I have seen bullies many times in my life before. I feel so sad for them :( Luckily I have never been bullied, mostly because I have always been on the high side of the "average height". It is sad for people to judge other people on their physical appearance. Middle school is probably the height of bullying, it's when kids are going through huge change and they want to stand out for when they start high school. High school gets a little better, at least in my school. I have seen very little bullying so far. I have seen Freshmen bully other Freshmen thinking the seniors will look at them as being "cool"... lol. nope. Sophomore year is when kids start to realize they don't need to act cool to make friends. At my school the freshmen come to school wearing their cool kicks and baggy pants even if they don't like them. They soon realize that the upper class men don't give a shit what they are wearing. Hell, some people wear pikachu costumes to my school (such amazing). Also, don't try and be the class clown, the bullies aim for people who steal the spotlight. Instead, raise your hand for answers (it will get you participation points :) ) and study!
     
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  18. sharqman

    sharqman Well-Known Member VIP

    er baggy pants such last decade
     
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  19. treyman77

    treyman77 Active Member

    Only in Californoa people!!!!!
     
  20. trukklob

    trukklob Active Member Creative Architect

    come at me, brah
     
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